Disclaimer: Hans - Karl Weiß had asked about Eugène's relations to the royal Bavarian family that Eugène had married into in January 1806. I'd love to post about that but I still have no clue how to tackle it. I'm not even sure if this is the best place to put the post, as it's of course all intertwined with Napoleon's foreign policy. Anyway, I'll start with a brief introduction and will put everything else into the comments peu à peu. Also, if this should better be posted elsewhere, please let me know, I'll delete and repost it asap.
Munich, 12 April 1805 – Auguste von Bayern writes to her brother Ludwig (at that time on his "grand tour" through Italy), asking for his opinion on her recent and rather sudden betrothal to prince Carl von Baden and explaining in the process why there was such haste (quoted and translated from Adalbert von Bayern, "Eugen Beauharnais"):
[…] consider that dear Papa wished it [the betrothal to Carl], France was to be feared, I believe Herr Otto [French ambassador to Bavaria] even had the order to desire my hand for Eugen Boharnet [sic!]; if things were not so certain with Prince Carl, a refuse would have been very dangerous, I must not even think of what a disgrace it would have been for our house; I hope they will not open my letter, for I would not like others to know what I am writing to my dearly beloved brother, goodbye, I must stop, for church begins much earlier.
This is the very first evidence we have of future vice-queen Auguste taking notice of one Eugène de Beauharnais. As Eugène’s connection to the Wittelsbach family only started with his marriage to Auguste, I thought we could begin with this. As can easily be perceived, Auguste was not particularly thrilled with this marriage offer, which was also true for her whole family.
Some more curious things to note about this letter: It’s in German, whereas to her father Auguste would always write in French, the tone is still quite child-like (I particularly love the belated realization that the letter might be opened – ooops, look, dear French spy, this is a private letter to my brother, so don’t tell this Bonaparte person about it, okay?) and of course Eugène’s last name is misspelled. Françoise de Bernardy and Michel Kerautret seem to assume that Auguste did it on purpose, in order to make fun of this impossible candidate. But I would find it even funnier if this almost 17-year-old Wittelsbach princess really had no clue how to spell it, while being completely aware that a marriage to this person would be a disgrace.
As to her letter being opened – I do not know. But in any case French spies had no need of it, as they would soon open the letters of Auguste’s father, which were in the same vein.
I imagine most people are rather unfamiliar with such petty German princes of the era. So who belonged to the ruling branch of the Wittelsbach family at the time?
Maximilian Joseph IV. von Zweibrücken-Birkenfeld, future king Maximilian I. Second son of the second son of the pre-to-last family branch of House Wittelsbach, he had been destined to serve in the French army (known as "prince Max" in Versailles – always in love, always in debt) and only inherited the title of elector because everybody in line before him managed to die without legitimate issue. According to French diplomat Thiard a man "without much character", which meant in the terms of the time that he was considered a weakling: hesitant, nervous, always worried about something or other, trying to wriggle his way out of every situation without actually committing himself, falling sick whenever he had to make an important decision. He also is unanimously described as friendly, fun- and peace-loving, unpretentious to the point of being confused with one of his servants on a regular basis, and much beloved by everyone he met. I tend to see him as a kind of anti-Napoleon as he really seems to have been the opposite of the French emperor in every single character trait. It is also to be noted that this rather ridiculous monarch managed to get his small country through a very challenging era unscathed. And yes, I do love him to bits, even if I could understand queen Karoline wanting to throttle him three times a day. Speaking of which:
Karoline von Baden. Daughter of Max Joseph's first cousin Amalie von Baden; sister to the Duchess of Brunswick, the Queen of Sweden, the Russian tsarina and the Prince Carl mentioned in Auguste's letter; also second wife to Max Joseph; future queen of Bavaria. Very anti-French, or at least anti-Napoleon, ever since the execution of the Duc d'Enghien with whom she briefly had been engaged in her youth. According to Bavarian de-facto prime minister Montgelas, like her sisters Karoline would always strongly be influenced by her overbearing mother. She in turn held a considerable influence over her husband, who was very proud of his young wife, loved her to bits and did not enjoy having to sleep on the sofa. Her relationship with Eugène would always be somewhat complicated, as Eugène in her view remained the guy who had stolen the bride destined for Karoline's younger brother.
Ludwig von Bayern, born in 1786, oldest son and heir of Max Joseph. Future crown prince and king Ludwig I. Extremely anti-French, pro-Austrian, at the time also hovering some romantic nationalist feelings (that would soon evaporate once he became king). Almost deaf, speaking with a stutter, had suffered from smallpox as a child. Highly educated, read and translated Latin and Greek texts. Prone to jealousy and distrust, also considered himself a poet. In my personal opinion, a lot weirder than his more famous namesake Ludwig II. Or weird in a different way. (The Wittelsbachs - everyone a different kind of crazy.)
Auguste Amalie, born in 1788, second child and oldest daughter from Max Joseph's first marriage. Author of the letter cited above. A very pretty princesse, for whom there had been plenty of marriage offers, including Austrian archdukes and the brother of Prussian queen Luise.
Charlotte, born in 1792, younger daughter of Max Joseph and sister to Ludwig and Auguste. The ugly duckling of the family, badly disfigured by smallpox, rather shy, very good-natured, according to Montgelas "au fond mieux" than her more beautiful sister. Suffered later through an arranged marriage to the crown prince of Württemberg and would end up as an Austrian empress (no. 4 of Francis’ wives).
Carl Theodor, born in 1795, the younger son from Max Joseph’s first marriage. Still a child at the time of the wedding, only played a role much later, when Eugène was already in exile in Bavaria. The same is true for the half-sisters from Max Joseph’s marriage to Karoline (they had twin girls, twice, in 1801 and 1805, then another girl in 1808 and the last daughter in 1810), some of whom were closer in age to Eugène's and Auguste's children than to their half-sister.
And finally, there was an unofficial family member, Auguste’s governess Madame de Wurmb, nicknamed "Machère", who had a great influence on her protégé and on top of that apparently scared the whole Munich residence into obedience. She was a staunch opponent of the French marriage and allegedly later had a funny interview with Napoleon over it.
So much for the protagonists, I’ll give a brief summary of how this marriage came to pass in the next part. Also, apologies in advance if I often come across as snarky – I’m unable to do otherwise. Most of the events that led to this marriage belong into a comedy show. Seriously.
Karl Heinz mentioned Rapp's memoirs and how Rapp claims to have told Napoleon that his love for war would be his undoing. Rapp was not the only one, not at all. But by this time, I do not think anybody was still able to talk some sense into Napoleon.
This is treasurer Mollien speaking about the situation by the end of 1809, when Napoleon to Europe seemed omnipotent (Spain notwithstanding), and Eugène's attitude at the time.
Well, yes. Fear and greed have always been powerful motives, I guess.
The last statement may already have been a delusion in itself.
Admittedly, the last claim astonishes me somewhat. But there you have it. Even (allegedly) timid and politically naive Eugène felt that things were getting out of control.
Chronology of an arranged wedding
Summer 1804: Napoleon on the look-out for potential princely brides, Auguste already among them
November 1804, Munich: first tentative marriage offer from France (through ambassador Otto)
exasperated reaction in Munich - bridegroom clearly unsuitable
to be on the safe side, Auguste is engaged to her cousin Carl von Baden – privately, for now
Napoleon at some point sends a diplomat named Thiard to Baden and Bavaria in order to make sure this betrothal never gets official, gives the same order to his ambassadors
for the next months, Bavarians will badger the elector of Baden to give his official consent to the marriage of his grandson to Auguste. The Baden elector must come up with excuse after excuse, and Auguste is not happy with her fiancé Carl
in the meantime, Milan, spring 1805: Eugène becomes viceroy of Italy (as Napoleon's last resort)
August 1805, Munich: secret alliance between Bavaria and France (no mention of any marriage though). Max Joseph does not sign it, but who cares
August 1805, Milan: crown prince Ludwig pays a courtesy visit to the viceroy Eugène de Beauharnais. Both sternly avoid talking about any marriages
September 1805: Austria "invades" Bavaria (I’m pretty sure they did not see it that way 😁)
this sets off the Third Coalition War. The Bavarian court flees to Würzburg on the 9th, but Max Joseph still clings to some kind of neutrality until Bernadotte shows up with a French army corps on the 27th. Belatedly signs the alliance contract. Has lots of stuff to explain to an infuriated Karoline.
October: Bernadotte frees Munich, Max Joseph returns home. Napoleon and Mack in the battle of Ulm and all that
November 1805: first meeting between Napoleon and Max Joseph (and young Ludwig) in Linz. Marriage agreed (according to Napoleon), "I've promised him nothing at all" (according to Max Joseph)
December 1805: Austerlitz. More importantly: Josephine and Caroline Murat in Munich, facing off with Karoline and Madame de Wurmb. Max Joseph still clings to the Baden marriage, "knows nothing" about anything related to this Beauharais guy
24 December: Duroc in Munich on behalf of Napoleon. Official marriage request
25 December: Max Joseph sick in bed. Because what else. Exchange of letters (in French) between father and daughter, with Ludwig serving as postman. Max Joseph puts moral thumbscrews on Auguste, and Auguste "sacrifices herself for the fatherland". Yes, that’s a direct quote.
28 December: Josephine, over the moon with joy, writes to Eugène (allegedly). Letter (if existing) does not reach recipient in time
31 December: Napoleon in Munich. Inspects bride. Approves. Has interview with governess. Officially informs stepson of engagement (in a letter of seven sentences) and for a first visual impression refers to an enclosed coffee mug. "She’s much better though." Over the following days rejoices in several letters about what a nice couple this will be
1st January 1806, Munich: Proclamation of the Kingdom of Bavaria
3 January, Milan: Eugène, who has not heard a word from Josephine in six weeks and only knows that she's in Munich because he's read it in the papers, receives first congratulations from a Monsieur de Boulanger, post inspector, "repeating" Her Majesty's earlier, delayed letter. Also receives letter and coffee mug from his stepfather, appreciates the portrait and declares his intention to make the original happy. Hopefully at least gets some decent coffee that day
3 January, Munich: After several days of negotiating Napoleon, who actually wanted top leave for Paris, realizes the Bavarians will still try to wriggle out of this engagement if he does not personally see things through. Second letter to Eugène ordering him to Munich. IMMEDIATELY.
4 – 9 January, Munich: Tensions running high for several days. Queen Karoline ostensibly falling sick. Recovers immediately when Napoleon sends his doctor. Allegedly lots of female wailing and dropping unconscious throughout the Munich Residenz
10 January, 10.30 AM: Eugène reaches Munich after three days of travel, meets stepfather, bride and mother (not necessarily in that order, but possibly in that order). Female wailing gradually fades. At some point Eugène is ordered to shave off his moustache (not clear by whom).
12 January: Eugène gets adopted by Napoleon
13 January: civil wedding (or "engagement" according to the Bavarians)
14 January: religious wedding. Napoleon in extremely high spirits
15 January: The court dances. Including the French emperor
17 January: departure of Napoleon and Josephine
21 January: departure of Eugène and Auguste for Milan. Max Joseph already "embraces his son-in-law several times" according to the newspapers
And just to end this, another letter from the new vice-queen, again to her brother Ludwig, written six months later:
4 June 1806:
Very interesting, no not snarky at all - I know only very little about the Wittelsbacher then, but I also would agree that Max manoeuvred quite well on the diplomatic field, Bavaria being on the threat of being disolved, Bavaria being the substitude the the Austrian Neatherlands. Here a portrait of Max - interesting to note the earing